959653393_034c7cfe9a_m.jpgIs there someone you know who shadows you at work or school? Someone who chooses clothes like yours and tries to get in with your friends? Someone who will even try to talk just like you?

I’ve had friends and clients tell me how frustrated and angry they are with people like this. And I ask, “Why?”

Why give away your power to someone you resent? No one can make you feel miserable unless you let them. Choose how you want to feel. Choose what kind of day you want to have. Take back your power and go for it.

Why stress out over how the wanna-be invades your circle of friends? If you can see it for what it is, so can everyone else. Give your friends credit for taking care of themselves. Grow your self-confidence and poise by staying neutral.

Why are you anxious about fixing this person’s life? That’s something only she or he can do. Apparently you’ve got something good going on in your life, or the wanna-be wouldn’t be trying so hard to imitate you.

Affirm for yourself, “There is something so wonderful about me, someone else wants to be just like that.”

Then go on and live the best life you can with what you’ve got. The planet can surely benefit from more people like you.

Janice M. Puta
Spirituality mentor and energy practitioner: www.OurSpiralJourney.com
Author of Pathways: Tales for the Spiritual Seeker
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