My Everyday Mystic by Jan Puta: blog for the soul

Both men and women ask the question, “Why can’t I find the right person for me?”

I ask them what they mean by “the right person” for them. And what kind of relationship are they looking for.

I try to find out who is showing up and why the friendships don’t last. What are the main problems that seem to occur again and again.

Then I work with their High Self and mine with an intuitive process and a system of information called Spiritual Response Therapy.

These are some of the questions I ask the High Self to answer for us, researching everything from subconscious programming in this lifetime to soul records from past lives:

• How much is this person open to receive the kind of relationship he or she says they really want? And if there is not 100% openness, then I know I have more research to do around that with further questioning. Sometimes High Self directs me to a chart of unresolved discordant energies to see how this person really feels on a subconscious level about relationships. Men and women can be subconsciously pushing against, resisting, feeling unworthy of what they really want to attract in. But with those kinds of energies sending out signals, all the client’s conscious efforts are not going to get him or her the relationship they really want.

• How much is this person open to receive what he or she says is the “right person” for them? Again, if this response is not 100%, then I need to do more questioning on why not. Many times clients have self-punishment programs from things that happened in past lives when they misused or abused someone. So part of the punishment they contrived in this lifetime, through a subconscious program, is that no matter what they do or how hard they try, they are not going to allow themselves to ever attract in a very worthy person that they might end up hurting in some way.

• How much does this person desire to suffer by attracting in unfulfilling relationships? If there is any charge on this at all, this means there may be benefit programs or experience/trauma programs to be cleared. From information either downloaded from past lives, or learned behavior in this lifetime, some people are conditioned to believe that this is just the way it is, and that this is normal for them.

• How much does this person desire to suffer by attracting in friends that are not at all like what this person really wants to meet? Again, if there is any charge on this at all, this may mean researching more subconscious programming (there are 13 different programs in SRT), finding and removing blocks to soul qualities like worthiness and self-esteem, discerning and clearing curses or vows or agreements around friends and relationships.

If you, or someone you know, are going through any struggles with finding the “right person” or moving that friendship into a fulfilling relationship, consider that there may be deeply rooted, self-limiting beliefs and programming getting in the way for either one of you, or both of you.

Spiritual Response Therapy is a highly evolved, confidential, and comfortable process to work with. If you’re new to SRT, or have had a clearing session done now and then, this is an example of some of the things I talk about and work on with my students and clients. If you’ve never worked with me before and want to have your own free 20-minute session to see how I can help you, email me at Janice@OurSpiralJourney.com with the subject: Let’s Talk for 20 Minutes!

We’ll get together on the phone, we’ll talk, you’ll feel good, and your life will change.

If you have some special ways to help yourself clear your energy field and to work through your issues in a friendship or relationship, let us know what they are. Drop a line in the response box below (or click on the comment link in Facebook) and share your thoughts with us.

I’m looking forward to hearing from you.

Janice M. Puta
Certified Teacher in Spiritual Response Therapy/Technique
Helping you get a life you love to live!
For classes and personal energy clearing sessions: Janice@OurSpiralJourney.com